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According to a 2019 study published by the Journal of Personality, women around the globe put kindness at the top of the list when ranking characteristics they would value most in a partner. [1]

In short, women rank kindness above physical attractiveness.

I’m in my 50’s and I have been using this “kindness” loophole for years to attract women of all ages.

I’m not talking about acts of kindness, like holding the door for the person behind you.

I’m talking about emanating kindness from the deepest core of your being.

That’s what makes it so powerful.

People can feel it (especially women) and you can’t fake it.

As a bonus, since you’re attracting women you will never be seen as “the creepy old guy”.

Here’s how it’s done…

STEP #1: Eliminate Negativity

To eliminate negativity, you’ll need a Release Technique (RT).

There are many RTs, but they all lead to the same result.

They liberate your natural ability to let go of negative emotions on the spot.

Quantum physics teaches us that everything is energy. Even our emotions.

What we think of as emotion is the experience of energy moving through the body.

Negative emotions are uncomfortable, so when we experience them, we suppress these feelings instead of allowing them to completely pass through the body.

Negative emotions are just energy wanting to be released.

RTs allow for this release to happen so you no longer experience fear, worry, anxiety, hate, anger, jealousy, sadness, or any other negative emotion.

Science has verified the effectiveness of Release Techniques to eliminate negative emotions.

Numerous research studies were conducted by Dr. Richard Davidson of State University in New York, and Dr. David McClelland of Harvard University.

The doctors concluded that Release Techniques are simple, efficient, absent of questionable concepts, and produce rapid observable results. [2]

Here’s a quick RT to get you started:

Whenever you experience a negative emotion, allow yourself to feel it as fully as you can until the feeling completely goes away on its own.

Negative emotions can’t stand the clear light of awareness.

So give the feeling your undivided attention.

Let the feeling rise up, expand, and dissipate.

Do this for every negative emotion you experience and you will no longer feel negativity.

To learn more check out “The Sedona Method” published in 2003 by Hale Dwoskin.

STEP #2: Increase Metta

Most people have a feeling, a sense, or belief we are connected to something greater than ourselves…

God, the Universe, Nature, a Higher Power… It doesn’t matter what you call it.

The fact is, we are connected to something divine in nature.

For now, I’ll refer to it as your True Self.

There’s an ancient saying that goes like this:

When the world is seen the True Self is hidden. When the True Self is seen the world is not.”

When you are Mindful long enough you will see your True Self.

It’s like being captivated by a TV show.

You get so caught up in the story, the sides of the TV and the wall behind the TV fall away.

All you see is the TV screen.

In the same way, when you are Mindful long enough, the world falls away so you can see your True Self.

When this happens you will experience the deepest joy you can imagine.

In the Buddhist tradition, this state of mind is called the first Jhana: Detachment from the external world and a consciousness of joy and ease.

You can’t break the connection to your True Self but you can increase the strength of your connection.

How? By spending time with your True Self.

When you are Mindful you are spending time with your True Self.

As a result, you will cultivate Metta.

Metta is loving-kindness, benevolence, goodwill.

Here’s a Mindfulness exercise to increase Metta quickly:

As often as you can and for as long as you can, sit comfortably and bring your awareness to the present moment.

Pay attention to every moment of your breath:

– Notice the moment when your INHALE ends and your EXHALE begins.

– Notice the moment when your EXHALE ends and your INHALE begins, and

– Notice all the moments in between.

While paying attention to the breath, repeat a mantra, like…

– May all beings be happy and well

– May all beings be free from suffering

– May I be happy

– May I be peaceful, or

– Repeat the same word over and over, like love or peace

If you say repeatedly to yourself: Peace… Peace… Peace…

Eventually, you will feel peace.

Keep breathing and saying the words until you FEEL the MEANING of the words.

Then focus on the FEELING.

Use whatever words you like to generate positive emotion.

When the emotion becomes strong, focus on the EMOTION and let go of the words.

The words light the match that ignites the Metta.

The feelings that come AFTER the words… that’s Metta.

Cultivating Metta is like lighting a fire. Once the fire gets going, it just takes off.

It’s a pleasant experience. You’ll love it!

For immediate results, increase Metta right before prospecting.

To learn more check out “Bear Awareness” published in 2017 by Ajahn Brahm.


Some women you attract will be skilled at starting conversations, but most will just make eye contact and smile.

So you will need to initiate the conversation.

As you know, women are incredibly intuitive.

If your sole intention is to get laid, she’ll know it.

Instead, your intention should be to connect emotionally and spiritually… to give… to lift her up… to brighten her day… without wanting or needing anything in return.

An amazing conversation consists of three parts: An Open, a Conversation, and a Close (OCC for short).

Here’s a quick example of each…

OPEN: Compliment-Expand (CE)

Give her a sincere compliment. Then expand on the compliment with more detail:

– I love that dress. Red is a beautiful color on you.

– That is an amazing outfit. I love women with class and style.

– That is a beautiful top. It looks incredible on you.


Ask questions and be genuinely interested in her answers.

With one simple question you can start a fun conversation, flirt like a pro, and connect with her as no one has before:

– If you could name 3 things about yourself that are uniquely attractive – that have nothing to do with your physical appearance – what would you say they would be?

– What’s the one thing you can’t say no to?

– What qualities do you find attractive in guys?

– Occasionally, I think a woman just needs an evening of passion. If that were to happen, how do you think it would start?


You have attracted her, created an emotional connection, and built sexual tension.

Now it’s time to close…

Number Close:

– You’re the most interesting person I’ve met in a while. How can we continue this conversation?

Meetup Close:

– I would love to get to know you better. I’m having a get-together on Sunday. You should come.

Immediate Date Close:

– I have a meeting in 30 minutes, but I would love to get to know you better. Would you like to join me for a quick coffee?

Your Seduction Plan will dictate the appropriate close.

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[1] psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-athletes-way/201909/the-trait-people-desire-most-in-partner

[2] sedona.com/Scientific-Evidence.asp

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