Mystery Pickup Artist: Mystery Method 2021 (How To Pick Up Women)

Here’s a list of 10 key components in the Mystery Method updated for 2021:

1) NIGHT GAME: The Mystery Method is primarily focused on picking up women in bars and nightclubs.

If you would like to meet party girls or young women, bars, nightclubs, gentlemen’s clubs, and hangouts around universities are perfect.

Prospecting efforts should be focused on the type of woman you would like to meet.

Here are few good places to meet women:

– Anything near a hair salon or beauty shop
– Book store
– Mall
– Home décor store
– Coffee shop
– Grocery store
– Health food store
– Healthy restaurant (Panera Bread is a great place to meet women)
– Yogurt shop
– Ask yourself what groups she is a member of and join them ( is a good resource)
– Ask yourself what charities she supports and support them
– Ask yourself what events in your city she frequents and attend them (wine tasting, restaurant opening, bridal shows)


2) PEACOCKING: To dress and behave in an over-the-top and flashy manner, for the purpose of drawing attention and attracting women.

If wearing a fuzzy top hat, goggles, multiple wristwatches, garish earrings, black nail polish, and flamboyant clothing is congruent with your style and who you really are, then by all means… peacock away.

But peacocking doesn’t have to be loud to be effective. The key to peacocking is to make strong style choices. 

Interesting clothes with a few pieces of subtle but visible jewelry will do the trick.  

Personally, I prefer to use my vibe to attract women anytime, anywhere, no matter what I’m wearing.

When it comes to attracting women, vibe outweighs wardrobe 1000 to 1.


3) THREE SECOND RULE: Approach within 3 seconds of seeing someone you like.

If you don’t know how to follow your intuition, I agree, you should consider approaching someone you’re interested in immediately.

But once you develop your intuition, use it to determine who and when to approach.

Intuition is never wrong, so I always use it when prospecting.

As a result, I meet the right women, at the right time, in a serendipitous manner…  Which is the best way to meet women.

If you decide to use the 3-second rule as your primary decision-making tool, you will inevitably create awkward and uncomfortable situations for yourself and your target.


4) NEGGING: The act of emotional manipulation whereby a person makes a deliberate backhanded compliment or otherwise flirtatious remark to another person to undermine their confidence and increase their need for the manipulator’s approval.

I am 100% against negging. Here’s an easy 2 step filter to use when communicating with anyone, not just women… Before speaking ask yourself if what you are about to say passes the TK Test:

(1)  Is it True?
(2)  Is it Kind?

If what you are about to say doesn’t pass this 2-question filter, keep it to yourself.

I only turn this filter off when hanging out with my best, closest guy friends.

We make fun of each other constantly…  Not to be mean, but for good times and laughs.

Guys you know… it’s just something we do.

Enough said. Let’s move on…


5) CANNED OPENERS: Field-tested lines and routines a PUA (pick up artist) uses repeatedly to open sets and start an interaction.

I have no problem with being prepared to open set.  In fact, I believe in being ready to start an interesting conversation at any time, in any situation… As long as the opener passes the TK Test above.


6) FALSE TIME CONSTRAINT: A PUA statement used when opening set to reassure the target he will not take up much of her time. (Example: I can’t stay long. I have to get back to my friends, but…)

I believe you should communicate a time constraint during a set. But again, use a time constraint that passes the TK Test.


7) BODY ROCKING: A form of non-verbal false time constraint used by a PUA to convey he is not needy and therefore may leave the set at any time.

An example of Body Rocking would be to slightly turn away from a set as if you were just about to leave.

This is one of many body language techniques you can use to help execute a success set.

I define a successful set as one that results in your desired outcome or “Close”.

There are many different Closes.  You can: Number Close, Kiss Close, Sex Close, Shop Close, Meet Up Close, Bounce Back Close, Immediate Date Close… Just to name a few…


8) DEMONSTRATE HIGH VALUE (DHV): An action taken by a PUA to make himself appear or come across as a person of high status, thus making himself more desirable to women.

There are many different ways to DHV and they can all be extremely effective… Including one-liners, questions, routines, demos (demonstrations), games, quizzes, jokes, assumptions, stories, and humor.

Mystery used magic (which is a demo), stories, routines, and cocky funny humor.

While I love using humor, I’m not a big fan of cocky funny humor in general because you can easily come across as a prick.


9) AMOGing: Tactics used to negate attempts to block advances towards your target.

In short, an AMOG (Alpha Male Of the Group) is a hater who’s trying to cockblock you.

An AMOG can be any member of the group who stands in the way of successfully closing the target. 

It could be the target’s BF or an aggressive male who is competing for the attention of your target.

If left unchecked, the AMOG will try to destroy your game, usually by challenging your material.

Occasionally, an AMOG may even turn to physical intimidation or violence.

That’s why you should focus your attention on building a bond with the AMOG first, before approaching your target.

The AMOG must be won over, defeated, and diffused before approaching women in the group.

To accomplish this, open the AMOG first.

Then ask, “how do you all know each other,” to open the rest of the group and ultimately your target.


10) PHASE-SHIFT: To transition from the Comfort to the Seduction stage of pickup.

Phase-Shifting can be done by increasing kino (touching) and turning up the sexual tension with the use of a story.

If done correctly, this will lead to kissing which is a pathway to intimacy.

Personally, I like to use Staging and Tantra to make the shift to intimacy effortless and natural.


There you have it… 10 key components of the Mystery Method updated for 2021. I hope you enjoyed this as much as I enjoyed writing it for you. Goodbye, and God Bless!

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