How To Pull 9’s & 10’s With ZERO Chance Of Rejection (works every time!)
4 Step Panty-Dropping System...
10 years ago I was the guy women rejected, ignored, and humiliated.
Since then, I have consumed over 1,100 different books, seminars, workshops, boot camps, videos, courses, and webinars on all aspects of dating, relationships, and seduction.
Now I’m going to share 4 steps you can take right now to make 9’s and 10’s feel an intense sexual desire for you.
These steps are based on female psychology and scientific research.
Additionally, they have been thoroughly tested in the field.
If you follow these 4 steps to meet women, neither one of you will be able to resist getting physical.
Let’s take it from the top…
STEP 1: Make Her Approach You
If you research “how to attract women”, you’ll find several articles, blog posts, books, and videos about specific physical or character traits some women find attractive… which doesn’t really explain how to attract women.
For the sake of clarity, I define “attracting women” as the creation of circumstances that result in beautiful women approaching you first.
There are several ways to attract women.
Today I’m going to share one of my favorites.
It’s called Release-Increase...
First, RELEASE Negative Emotions.
After eliminating negativity you’ll be left with only positive emotions… and positive emotions promote romantic attraction. [1]
There are many ways to permanently release negativity.
I call this one the Oil Drill:
(1) Make a list of all the negative emotions you experience.
(2) Schedule alone time and turn off your phone. You will not want to be disturbed.
(3) Select the first emotion you would like to release and think of something that causes you to feel the emotion.
(4) Point or tilt your head down slightly toward your stomach or chest. This disengages your mind and activates the feeling center, which is the erase mode.
(5) Notice any unwanted energy in your stomach or chest area. It could be a knot or clutching feeling. Take some time to notice it.
(6) Release the energy.
To drill for oil, you must find the oil, sink a pipe into the oil pocket, and uncap the pipe.
Then the oil comes shooting out by itself.
Do the same to release unwanted energy.
Put an imaginary tube into the energy, uncap it, and allow the energy to come shooting out.
(7) Let the unwanted energy continue to shoot out until it has been completely released.
(8) Repeat the process for every negative emotion on your list.
From now on, whenever you experience a negative emotion:
– Tilt your head down.
– Notice the energy in your stomach or chest area.
– Put an imaginary tube into the energy, uncap it, and allow the energy to come shooting out.
Second, INCREASE Positive Emotions.
Here’s how: Add awareness to your daily routine.
Practicing awareness increases confidence and positive emotions. [2] [3]
On top of that, even when physical attractiveness is taken into account, women prefer men who are high in mindfulness. [4]
I had success attracting women when I was meditating for 10 to 15 minutes a day.
But when I started meditating an hour a day it improved my health, wealth, and relationships.
I experienced a drastic improvement in every aspect of life… and my ability to attract women increased 10 fold.
“The longer you stay in a state of mindfulness, the more miracles will show up in your life.” – Joseph Nguyen (Best-selling author)
At first, it was difficult to meditate for an hour.
Soon, it became difficult to stop meditating after an hour.
While meditating, it’s important to stay mindful. (i.e. stop thinking and focus your awareness on the present moment.)
I find it helpful to use multiple anchors at the same time to remain mindful during meditation.
STEP 2: Sexual Wordsmith
After you Release-Increase, you will literally radiate confidence, peace, or joy all the time without thinking about it… and women will notice.
When you go out, some women will strike up a conversation but most will give you an I.O.I. (indicator of interest) letting you know she wants you to approach her.
Either way, it’s time to use your words to increase attraction and build sexual desire.
Here are a few conversation tips:
– Talk about something she’s interested in. Watch a romantic comedy, share your thoughts about the movie, and ask her opinion. Or read a romance novel and do the same.
– Be prepared to jump into several interesting topics of conversation. Be unpredictable.
– Flirt using subtlety and innuendo. Hint at something sexual to give her dirty thoughts without saying it directly.
– Use accusations. When she pays you a compliment or challenges you, accuse her of hitting on you, flirting with you, having a dirty mind, or attempting to seduce you.
Here are a few paralinguistic tips:
(Paralinguistics are the aspects of spoken communication that do not involve words. They add emphasis or shades of meaning to the spoken word.)
– It’s okay to have swag, be serious, sincere, playful, funny, strong, a leader, understanding, and confident. It’s NOT okay to be arrogant, hostile, argumentative, needy, abusive, insecure, negative, insane, or a pushover. (These are immediate attraction killers.)
– Control your frame. When you have frame control, people are “playing by your rules”. They accept your leadership. You MUST control the interaction to increase attraction.
– Expect NOT to be interrupted. If other people can hear, let them hear. You are high value. You don’t care what other people think.
– Give sincere compliments without needing or wanting anything in return. You are NOT trying to please her. You’re just expressing yourself, being social, and having fun. In fact, you are screening her to see if she measures up.
STEP 3: Close!
At this point, you have attracted her, created an emotional connection, and built sexual tension.
Now ask her out like a WINNER!!!
Examples:
– You are the most interesting person I’ve met in a while. Would you like to join me for a quick coffee?
– I would love to get to know you better. Why don’t we go somewhere a little more quiet where we can relax and focus in.
– I’m enjoying getting to know you. I would love to make you dinner tonight. My place. 7 o’clock. Text me and I’ll reply with my address.
– I would love to get to know you better. We should hang out tonight. Be here at 10, wear something cute, and I’ll take care of the rest. Give me your number and I’ll text you when I’m on my way. (Open the “Add Contact” app and hand her your phone.)
If you’re not already there, be sure to end the date at your place.
Have books about Tantra in plain sight.
She will inevitably ask about your selection of reading materials.
When she does, move on to the 4th and final step…
STEP 4: Create Intense Sexual Desire
Tantra is an ancient Indian tradition dating back more than 5,000 years.
The practice intertwines spirituality, mindfulness, and sexuality to facilitate a deep connection with your partner.
“Tantra is the science of transforming ordinary lovers into soul mates. And that is the grandeur of Tantra.” – Osho (Indian religious leader)
When she asks about your Tantra book collection, offer to show her a few positions.
Save the yab-yum position for last.
In yab-yum, she is seated on your lap.
Once you are both seated comfortably, begin circulating sexual energy:
– While you inhale she will exhale. While you exhale she will inhale.
– As you INHALE, imagine energy flowing from your genitals up to your heart. As you EXHALE, imagine the energy flowing from your heart to your partner’s heart.
– As she INHALES, the energy you are giving her fills her heart. As she EXHALES, the energy flows from her heart, down, and back to you through her genitals.
– Continue exchanging sexual energy in this circular motion for as long as you can stand it.
The sexual desire will become so intense neither one of you will be able to resist… especially if you practice mindfulness 60 minutes a day!
References:
[1] psychologytoday.com/us/blog/why-bad-looks-good/201907/partners-most-attractive-non-physical-trait
[2] eocinstitute.org/meditation/meditation-can-make-you-more-social
[3] ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6296247
[4] psychologytoday.com/us/blog/meet-catch-and-keep/201510/the-hidden-trait-predicts-who-we-find-attractive
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