How To Become Irresistible To The Opposite Sex WITHOUT Changing Your Appearance
Here are 3 short stories to explain 3 steps you can take right now to become irresistible to the opposite sex without altering your physical appearance.
Each step builds on the last. Combine all 3 to maximize results…
STORY #1: Poniqua The Porcupine
Once upon a time, there was a girl named Poniqua.
Here she is at age 5:
This is Poniqua at age 35:
As you can see, she has sharp quills like a Porcupine.
If that wasn’t bad enough, every quill penetrates her skin and directly touches a nerve.
So they’re actually more like spikes.
If anyone touches a spike, even by accident, it hurts.
At the very least, it’s extremely uncomfortable.
As you can imagine, these spikes are a serious problem.
It’s difficult to sleep.
It’s hard to get close to people because they may touch a spike and cause pain.
The truth is, these spikes completely run her entire life.
They affect every decision:
– Where she goes
– What she does
– Who she talks to
– Who she hangs out with
– Who can stand to hang out with her
– Where she allows herself to work
– And every aspect of her romantic, personal, and professional relationships
Poniqua didn’t know there was a way to remove the spikes.
So she let them dictate her entire life until the day she died.
The End.
Moral of the story: Don’t allow spikes to influence your decisions or control your life.
By now, I’m sure you’re wondering what spikes are and where they come from.
Negative emotions are spikes.
Fear, anxiety, worry, hate, anger, jealousy, and sadness are all spikes.
Things that bother you are spikes.
Anything that “pushes your buttons” is a spike.
We all have them.
So, what can you do about it?
Well… you could live in a cave in the middle of nowhere so nobody can find you and trigger your spikes.
Or you could change everyone you will ever need to interact with so their actions and behaviors accommodate your belief system in a way that won’t irritate your spikes.
Or you can remove the spikes.
You can’t spend the rest of your life in a cave.
Nor can you spend the rest of your life changing everyone else.
In the words of Siddhartha Gautama (The Buddha):
“Holding on to negative emotions is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else. You are the one who gets burned.”
So the only sane and feasible choice is to remove the spikes.
Michael Singer is the author of the New York Times best-seller, “The Untethered Soul”.
During an interview with Oprah, Mr. Singer shared this technique for removing spikes:
When you feel a negative emotion (fear, anger, or jealousy for example), or someone pushes one of your buttons, instead of ignoring or suppressing the feeling, allow yourself to feel the emotion completely until it goes away on its own.
Do this for every negative emotion you experience and your spikes will be removed.
A complete lack of negativity will make you WAY more attractive to the opposite sex.
Emotions are highly contagious. [1]
If you feel negative, you can make others feel negative.
If you feel positive, you can make other people feel positive.
This phenomenon is called “emotional contagion”. [2]
A major factor in your ability to attract others is the way you make them feel.
We are drawn to people who make us feel happy. [3]
Once your spikes are removed, you will be more attractive because you make people feel good.
As a result, people will enjoy being in your presence.
STORY #2: Arquisha The Angel
Once upon a time, there were two very close friends named Arquisha and Watoya.
They were best friends for more than 50 years.
Death is a natural part of life, so Watoya made her transition to the next life at age 98.
Arquisha followed 2 years later.
Immediately after Arquisha’s transition, she became an angel in heaven.
She wanted to reunite with her friend Watoya so she used her angelic powers to scan all of heaven, but couldn’t find her friend.
Then she scanned all of humanity and the animal kingdom… Still no Watoya.
So she decided to check the insect world. Lo and behold, she finally found her long-lost friend.
Watoya had been reincarnated as a worm… and lived on a farm… in a pile of cow shit.
Arquisha was very excited. She immediately flew down to earth to save her friend.
“Watoya, it’s me, Arquisha,” she explained, “I’m here to take you to heaven.” (Arquisha was a very powerful angel so she could speak worm.)
Watoya wasn’t interested in leaving her pile of cow shit. “I don’t want to leave,” she shouted, “It’s nice and warm in here and I have everything I need.”
Arquisha did her best to explain heaven is infinitely better than a pile of cow shit but it was like explaining the internet to an ant. Watoya just didn’t get it.
She refused to leave her comfortable pile of cow shit so Arquisha decided to take her to heaven by force.
She dug around in the cow shit to grab Watoya and take her to heaven but Watoya kept slipping away.
(As it turns out, a worm in cow shit is hard to catch.)
Arquisha was up to her armpits in cow shit digging around for her friend.
Finally, Arquisha was able to catch Watoya and take her to heaven.
Once they reached heaven, Watoya immediately transformed into a beautiful angel and experience the love and joy of being in heaven.
Realizing how foolish she was for wanting to stay in cow shit, she thanked Arquisha profusely.
The two angels remain best friends in heaven for all of eternity.
The End.
Story explanation:
– Arquisha the Angel represents Mindfulness (a direct route to heaven on earth).
Mindfulness is the practice of bringing your awareness to the present moment.
It’s a way to cultivate inner bliss.
Nothing outside of you is making you happy. Yet, you are filled with joy.
That’s one of more than a hundred benefits of Mindful Meditation. [4]
– Watoya the Worm represents everyone who does NOT practice Mindfulness and is therefore not realizing their best self.
They are still living in cow shit, unaware of the heavenly existence that could be their earthly reality.
Moral of the story: Refusing to practice Mindfulness is just as ridiculous as Watoya wanting to live in cow shit instead of heaven.
Practicing Mindfulness increases positive emotions. [5]
Positive emotions promote romantic attraction. [3]
Make Mindfulness a part of your daily routine.
Once you do, you will radiate positive energy and increase your romantic attractiveness.
Here’s a Mindfulness exercise to get you started:
As often as you can and for as long as you can, sit comfortably and bring your awareness to the present moment.
Pay attention to every moment of your breathing.
While paying attention to the breath, say the word “surrender” to yourself every time you exhale and see what can melt away.
Is there any tension in your body that can melt away as you exhale?
Can the need to follow thoughts melt away?
What else can melt away?
Just like an ice cube sitting in the sun, the melting happens naturally without thought or effort.
STORY #3: No Excuses
Before getting into the dating industry, I was the guy women rejected, ignored, and humiliated.
Now, every time I leave the house at least one woman will either come up and start a conversation or give me a strong indicator of interest letting me know she wants me to approach her.
Here’s what I did to turn things around…
It all started with a public speaking workshop given by world-renowned motivational speaker, author, television host, and former congressman, Les Brown.
At the workshop, his daughter Ona Brown shared this short story:
Back when Les started his public speaking career, speakers had to be college-educated. He wasn’t.
Public speakers couldn’t have facial hair. He had a beard.
And public speakers definitely couldn’t be black. He’s African American.
Despite his obvious setbacks, he was able to land his first speaking gig.
He took a bus to the hotel where the event was being held and arrived a day early.
He couldn’t afford to get a room at the hotel, so he slept in a restroom stall, got up in the morning, and delivered a speech on PROSPERITY.
After hearing that story I decided to adopt a No Excuses mindset.
I took 3 STEPS that immediately improved my success with the opposite sex.
STEP 1: I removed my spikes. I no longer experience fear, anger, jealousy, or any other negative emotion.
STEP 2: I started practicing mindfulness. As a result, I feel confidence, peace, or joy all the time.
After completing steps 1 and 2, I noticed a dramatic change in my social life.
I started attracting people of all ages.
Girls began to smile at me, “accidentally” bump into me, and start conversations.
Guys wanted to be friends.
Even children started saying hello and initiating conversations.
Remove your spikes, add mindfulness to your daily routine, and you will experience similar results.
STEP 3: I became FULL.
Les Brown said a public speaker should be ready to give a talk anytime, anywhere.
He called it being FULL.
That’s how you should be when talking to the opposite sex – ready to have an amazing conversation anytime, anywhere.
Here’s a quick tip to help you become FULL: Collect Stories.
They can be fiction, non-fiction, interesting, funny, serious, or teach a life lesson.
The story doesn’t have to be your own.
It can come from someone you know, a TV show, a movie, a book, current events, literally anywhere.
Here are a few sites you can visit to collect interesting stories:
– listverse.com
– toptenz.net
– huffpost.com/section/weird-news
– news.sky.com/strangenews
– express.co.uk/news/weird
Feel free to add the stores in this article to your collection as well.
After collecting stories, add questions, demos, jokes, games, 1 liners, and routines to be truly FULL.
According to a study referenced in a 2015 article published by Psychology Today, both men and women feel disconnected when conversation lags. [6]
Once you have completed the first two steps, you will be irresistible to the opposite sex.
Don’t blow it by making a lame first impression.
Become FULL so you can continue to build attraction during the first conversation.
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References
[1] psychologytoday.com/us/blog/anger-in-the-age-entitlement/201108/emotional-attractiveness-work
[2] en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Emotional_contagion
[3] psychologytoday.com/us/blog/why-bad-looks-good/201907/partners-most-attractive-non-physical-trait
[4] eocinstitute.org/meditation/141-benefits-of-meditation
[5] ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6296247
[6] psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-attraction-doctor/201508/4-ways-use-your-words-build-romance
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