How To Attract Women During COVID Without Saying A Word
Because of COVID I don’t get out much. I only go to the gym or to the grocery store. But when I do go out, at least one woman will either approach me first or give me a strong I.O.I. (Indicator Of Interest) letting me know she wants me to approach her.
In this post, I’m going to share with you exactly how I do it.
Here’s a great example of how it usually happens…
I went to Publix to buy a loaf of bread. A cute girl walked into the store a few feet in front of me.
I noticed 2 things right away (1) her shorts were cute, actually, what was in her shorts was cute (2) she had a cat tattoo on the back of each leg.
When we entered the store, she went one way, and I went the other. When I found the bread aisle, she just happened to be standing right in front of the 100% whole wheat bread I came to buy.
Turns out she was there to buy bagels. [Serendipity: unexpected good luck. This is one of the many side benefits to the attraction method I’ll share with you in a moment.]
As I walked towards her, she looked at me, gave me a big smile, and said, “hi”. (Even if she’s wearing a mask, it’s easy to tell when a woman is smiling. She makes eye contact and gets crow’s feet at the outer corner of her eyes.)
So let’s review the situation…
– A complete stranger is giving me a big smile and a ‘hello’
– She has interesting tattoos
– And I like her shorts
First, she obviously wants me to talk to her so there is no chance of getting rejected. AND I had so many approach options it’s ridiculous:
Option 1: “Good morning. I have to say, those shorts are incredibly cute on you.”
Option 2: “Good morning. I have to ask, what’s the story behind those cat tattoos?”
Option 3: “Good morning. I bet you have a beautiful smile under that mask.”
I decided to go with: “Good morning. I bet you have a beautiful smile under that mask. I have to ask, what’s the story behind those cat tattoos?” And during the conversation I worked in, “by the way, those shorts are incredibly cute on you.”
At the end of the conversation, I decided to put her in the friend zone because I wasn’t that into her.
Here’s the thing, if you can have all the candy you want for free, how much candy are you going to eat? I’m willing to bet your candy consumption will decrease over time.
Now before you start judging me, thinkin’ I’m a douche, you should know there was a time I couldn’t even BUY candy.
Back in the day, I approached women all the time – and struck out all the time…
I remember one night I was out with a friend bar hoppin’ when I say this girl that made my jaw drop. She was a stunner, so I decided to step to her.
I was drunk (1st mistake). I had no idea what to say (2nd mistake). I didn’t account for the 2 other girls she had with her (3rd mistake).
I ended up looking like a jackass…
Her two friends started making fun of me right in front of my face. I tried to be cool and tough like it didn’t bother me. But the truth is… Rejection hurts.
Fast forward… I had the good fortune of landing a job as a matchmaker in Los Angeles for a prestigious firm.
Then I became a life coach, a women’s dating coach, a men’s dating coach, and now an Attraction Consultant.
Along the way, I consumed every piece of information I could find on all aspects of dating, seduction, confidence building, relationships, personal development, spirituality, and emotional balance.
I tested every strategy. Most, about 92%, didn’t work for me. But the other 8% did.
As a direct result of my testing, women started liking me.
I thought I was imagining things at first. But as the days turned into weeks, and weeks turned into months, it became obvious women were attracted to me.
How to attract women so they approach you first…
It’s a simple 3-step process.
Step 1: Use release techniques to rid yourself of negative emotions. I hardly ever experience fear, anxiety, worry, hate, anger, jealousy, or sadness. On the rare occasion I do feel one of these emotions, it comes and goes in a matter of seconds.
Step 2: Practice “Off Time” to amplify your remaining emotions. Namely: love, peace, and joy.
I attract women because I literally radiate love, peace, or joy all the time.
And women can feel it.
Off Time is the practice of bringing your awareness to the present moment. It’s a form of meditation.
I call it “Off Time” because there are many different types of meditation, and I want to make sure we are on the same page.
Here’s a quick Off Time technique to get you started…
It’s called: Wait – Meditate
Whenever you find yourself waiting for anything (in a line, a drive-through, a phone update, for your computer to start up) bring your awareness to the breath.
As you inhale, say to yourself “Wait”
As you exhale, say to yourself “Meditate”
Inhale Wait, Exhale Meditate, Inhale Wait, Exhale Meditate… continue this pattern of awareness, breathing, and self-dialog for the duration of your wait time.
This meditation using the breath and a mantra as an anchor to keep your awareness in the present moment.
An important part of Off Time or mindfulness. Keep your mind still and quiet.
Despite making an effort to do so, no one can stop thoughts from coming up indefinitely.
It’s natural for the mind to wander off and it’s natural for thoughts to arise.
The key is to acknowledge the thought without following it to another thought, and another thought, and another thought.
That’s where your anchors come into play.
When your mind begins to wander, or thoughts arise, clearly see or notice the thought and gently bring your attention back to your anchors (the breath and the wait – meditate mantra).
Each time you return to your anchor, you develop Joriki (spiritual power).
If you would like a more formal, structured meditation practice, check out:
– Vipassana Meditation, or
– Zazen (aka Zen Meditation)
There you have it…. The first two steps to attracting women. If you combine release techniques and Off Time with Step Three, I guarantee you will become a chick magnet… regardless of who you are or what you look like!
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